LIFE TARGETS

THERE SHOULD BE THREE LEVELS OF TARGETS- HIGH, MEDIUM AND LOW.

We put certain targets for all our expectations.

When the target is in the highest level,

We call that as ambition or greed. That is our vision.

Quite often we have this high level of expectations only.

If some thing adverse happened and the visions are toppled, we would be perplexed, perturbed and frustrated.

There can be a nervous break down too!

How can we alleviate the probable tension of disappointment?

The best solution is to foresee things in multi dimension.

A three tier of anticipations in the life targets can be projected.

A highest one a median one and a lowest one.

Let me cite a common contemporary example.

Suppose my son passed the examination with distinction,

 I will send him for Medical science.

If his performance is average,

He will be sent to a local college for Degree course.

In case he comes out with a least result,

His place will be in a Parallel College.

How safe is my target.

I will not be desperate or over jovial to face the real situation.

Caution: Whether this strategy is applicable in all walks of life. For a life scouring game, a severely injured relative put up in the ICU, whose stage is critical, can we leave three options? Live, Paralyzed or dead! No, not at all. That is why I referred the three-tier system to the life targets. Target is some thing, which is tangible with our effort. Life is not like that; it is with the disposal of the God almighty.